Monday, November 7, 2011

Being Single is Fun!



Being single is not necessarily a disaster, and make you feel lonely. Although the status of single, you can be happy really. Here are some reasons why not have a spouse was not as bad as you imagine.

1. Just because you have a spouse, does not mean you are happy. In this world, there are many people who have a poor relationship with her partner, so they live in fear, dependency, and feelings of insecurity. In addition, some people are also disturbed by the presence of the couple just can not support their own development respectively. So it's better to be a single and waiting to get a partner who understands the needs and desires of each.

2. More self-respect. People who often have multiple sexual partners are less likely to have a good relationship with him. They also more often feel depressed because it takes a long time to repair themselves, and learn various things from the relationship. Taking the distance and time between each new relationship could be a good decision. People who often have multiple sexual partners usually do not find what you want from previous lover, and this fact often makes them ultimately less respect himself.

3. Have the freedom to choose. When establishing a relationship, often time, energy and commitment devoted entirely to the relationship in order to stay in touch better.Though there are certain times when one must devote time and energy in family, work, education, or other matters. When being single you can be more free to devote time to the things you want it. For example to make a big career change, caring for the elderly, or continuing education. When you're in a relationship, you have to make decisions together, compromise, or even budge.

4. Get more attention. How so? Of course. By being a single woman you are free to associate with anyone, anytime, and anywhere. You can get the attention you get from your social circle wider, for example from work friends, friends get along all right man or woman, or family. This you can get because you also devote a lot of attention and love to them. Having a partner is not means you have a lot of love in life.

5. Be yourself. In a relationship, the most important thing is you can be yourself.Because, you do not need to pretend in front of the couple, do not need to change the character or appearance you become as he hoped. When being single, you can appear as themselves and not have to do various things with forced just to please your partner.

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